When is it okay to want something from someone
Probably never haha
Especially because someone else is definitely totally out of your control.
the note above was written in 2024
the comment below is written by a naman slightly older, a year later, in 2025
So, wanting something from someone, and like setting an expectation is almost always useless. But also, there is immense fun in counting on someone for something knowing that even if it falls through you'd be okay.
Knowing that you got you, but still depending on each other, from a place of abundance and not fear. That's fun.