Thoughts nmn?
Uhmm, I think it's a false dichotomy.
So, I get that being 'reactive' might not be the best strategy.
But I guess what we're missing here is awareness.
Awareness can help tune your reactive.
When you're aware of what you really want, what's good for you, how serving helps, how indulgence is exactly that, indulgence - then you make better decisions in the now.